A bizarre ancient courtship ritual practised by some of China’s ethnic groups involved a test of love where only a deep and painful bite was seen as a true expression of affection.
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This practice, known as yao shou ding qing, or “biting the hand to seal the love,” is a traditional courtship ritual of the Miao ethnic group in Hainan province, located at the nation’s southernmost point.
Officially recognised as a provincial-level intangible cultural heritage since 2017, it reflects the Miao philosophy that “everything leaves a trace.”
The ritual typically takes place under evergreen trees, such as betel palm trees, which symbolise enduring love.
During festivals like the third day of the third lunar month, a traditional Miao holiday for ancestral worship, young men and women gather under betel trees or on grassy hillsides to sing folk songs that express their emotions and hopes of finding a soulmate.
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When a young man falls in love, he may serenade a girl at night using a nose flute or tree leaves to produce soft, flowing melodies.